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The following article was published in our article directory on January 14, 2011.
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Modern Love Meets the Oldest Profession

Article Category: Society

Author Name: Boruch Fishman

Modern love is characterized by romance between two people, in which the feelings of love, physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual dynamics between the two people take precedence over other considerations such as society, children and religion. It has been characterized as a "me" centered type of relationship, although it also involves a process which is enriching and enlarging for the participants. As this approach to love becomes more and more engrained in our society, one wonders what effect it is having on the "oldest profession," prostitution.

Stories float around about ladies of the night who go on to marry their client. However, even today that is a rather rare occurrence. Commonly, professionals in this field become pregnated by men who renege on the responsibility of fatherhood . However, it may surprise some people to learn about the humanity of women who enter this profession and the extent to which the girls who participate in it have the same types of feelings about the men they are with as any other woman.

The traditional image of a prostitute is that of a cold hearted woman who fakes having orgasms. In truth, women who have sex for money still have thoughts and feelings about each of the men they are with. Most of their clients they will have no real feelings for, some they will hate, many will inspire feelings of fear or at least concern for personal safety, but some few will actually awaken passion and real feelings of attraction.

The pain women in this profession bear is the rapidity with which they are forced to form deep emotional attachments to their clients, which comes during the moments of sex, only to see the emotions dashed to the ground some time later when the client goes on his next date, sometimes even coming back to the same location and going with a friend of the woman; or simply failing to ever show up again at the woman's center of work.

Many houses of prostitution have a work ethic requiring that that the man who comes to their door should normally take the first woman available. This practice paradoxically creates an almost mystical element to the
process, as the factors determining the exact time when the client will arrive also determine which woman the man will end up having an intimate experience with. At the same time, house managers discourage the girls from forming emotional attachments to their clients as they might end up lowering their prices or begin seeing favored cleints on the outside and this could interfere with the house profit. Nevertheless, modern love cuts through all of these hindrances just as it does at the higher levels of society where obstacles to marriage can stand in the way of a relationship formed in even the most traditional dating scenario.

One man was repeatedly unsuccessful when he went to traditional dating agencies to find a match. Finally, as his frustration grew, he turned to houses of prostitution. He began frequenting one particular house of prostitution and on his third visit there he was told he could bring more money next time and the girl would go "all the way." When he came back for the fourth visit, he discovered that the girl he was paired with was a relative of his spiritual leader. He went with her anyway and soon began going back every week to see her. After a while, she agreed to come weekly to his house. Despite this success, the relationship flagged, as other than the spiritual leader, they didn't have that much in common, and the woman refused to take him to her father to get a blessing to marry.

In the meantime, however, the man met another woman "on the streets," and fell in love with her. This woman was the granddaughter of a spiritual leader who was a close friend of the other leader. She also took money for the times she was with him, until she was arrested and put in jail. During the nine months she spent in prison she realized how much the man meant to her and felt bad about having taken his money. When she was released from confinement she came back to him, paid him back for money she had taken and they began living together. The story illustrates the fact that relationships and interactions within the environs of prostitution have the same emotions the same conflicts, the same concerns and the same complications as seen in other pre-marital dating situations only they are interwoven with guilts, fears and concerns unique to prostitution.

The oldest profession has always been an outlet for feelings and actions that do not find expression within accepted society. It serves an outlet for otherwise conflicted spiritual associations as well as otherwise
restricted physical associations. In the modern world, where there is a greater and greater premium on finding a harmony between the physical attraction between people and their simultaneous spiritual attraction, the polar opposites between prostitution and socially accepted love are to some extent broken down.

Great Sun, author of the Viking release "Super Life Secret Codes," talked about the importance of two people in love finding a spiritual harmony above and beyond the mere physical attraction. "If a married couple are in two spiritual worlds, " he pointed out, "then just having physical attraction cannot keep them together in the long run." While prostitution by its focus on the physical act alone can distance love from the attainment of spiritual harmony, its rapidity and spontaneity facilitates approaching the spirit more quickly, and sometimes a couple brought together under these circumstances may have a higher spiritual harmony then two people who enter into a socially approved arranged marriage. Unfortunately, the moments of spiritual harmony are stretched very thin. When people meet under these circumstances they don't have the social support that people finding themselves in more traditional ways, such as through the suggestion of a friend, are more likely to have a lot of.

Keywords: Happiness, Secret , marriage ,modern ,love

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