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Separation and Divorce: How to Avoid it All

Article Category: Cheating

Author Name: E. Robinson

One of the best ways to save marriage they say, is to say no to separation and divorce. Divorce was created to protect women from abuse, economic denial, and polygamy. But because of its existence too, people tend to just throw their marriages away even for very petty reasons. Couples have become really spoiled and complacent that they tend to just be self-seeking and not be considerate of their partners. They think that there's always an easy way out anyway. However, there are still those who dream of living happily aver after. Even if it meant an imperfect marriage, they would still readily accept it for as long as they are together for life. Separation and divorce can be very hurting for families, especially children. It's a band aid solution that also does not really promise a better life or a better partner afterwards.

There are many ways to avoid it all. And the first solution is to talk. When you're mad at your partner, do not just shut up about it and kill him with our silence. And if you talk, do not nag until your partner surrenders. When therapists say talk to your partner, it means to talk and listen intently, showing interest in your partner's weaknesses, sorrow, wants and needs. Marriage is a two-way traffic, so give way to your partner. Who knows, you could be at fault at some aspects of your marriage without you knowing it.

Another solution to put a stop to separation and divorce is to say NO to a divorce offer. If you feel that you and your partner are very exhausted and your partner offers to just let go, don't accept it. For as long as you're both sane and if you love each other, then the marriage can still be saved. If you each have the capability to bend yourself backwards for your friends, your family and your boss, then there's no reason you can't work things out with your partner.

When trying to avoid separation and divorce, never disclose with a possible third party if you have marital problems with your partner. It's stupid how couples call up their exes or opposite sexes to let out hard feelings about their other half. Subconsciously you could be seeking for intimacy and the wrong consolation. When you have a problem, talk it out with each other, or any family member or close friend who also wants to make your marriage work out, and also a firm believer in commitment.

The most important thing to do, when wanting to stow away from separation and divorce, is to be ready for change. People change jobs, some friends, residencies and what not. Sometimes it could be for the better; it could also be not too good for a couple. But that's exactly why you commit, so that when things change and feelings are affected, there's room for contemplation and adjustment. So don't nag your partner for coming home late because the promotion at work asks more of his time. And don't accuse him of cheating every time he makes friends, especially if he's open about it.

Keywords: save marriage alone, stop my divorce, how to stop divorce, separation and divorce

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