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How Can I Stop My Divorce – What You Must Not Do to Save Your Marriage

Article Category: Break-up

Author Name: E. Robinson

It is perfectly understandable if marriages go through rocky roads. Your relationship is tested by time every so often, but sometimes, conflicts become uncontrollable and one party begins to think divorce is the only way out of them.

If your spouse is considering filing a divorce, you have to be ready to either concede to the decision or go against it. If you are to protest to it, you should go against it peacefully. "How do I stop my divorce peacefully," you may ask. It must be known that it is not easy to stop a divorce if your spouse is determined to file it, but you can change your partner's mind by following these things:

- I can stop my divorce by not clinging or begging.

You should not beg your spouse to change her/his mind because that will only make you appear desperate. You should act better than that. Furthermore, your saying that you have changed and things will be better soon is only your spouse's way of believing that you cannot change and become a better person. Your words will not have an effect on your spouse; your promises would not be valid unless a concrete proof is presented. If you are willing to change, do not say you will; show you will. Lip service is never better than tangible acts.

- I can stop my divorce by not blackmailing my spouse emotionally.

If you have to say the magic words, do not say them while you are in the process of stopping the divorce. When you repeatedly tell your spouse that you love him/her, the person will only think that you are blackmailing emotionally. This is because you are targeting the softest spot of the emotions. This action can push him/her further away than draw him closer. The words are necessary but are better left unsaid, at least while the marriage is being salvaged. You can save these words for later, when the relationship is finally mended.

- I can stop my divorce by agreeing instead of arguing.

Negating your partner's words is probably the worst defense you can use. No matter how disagreeable your spouse's words are, you should never oppose them if you want to save your marriage. If you keep on defending yourself of the false accusations, it would just appear that you are guilty and trying to find a way out. However, if you agree and submit to every word that your spouse says, you are going to put off the flame and get rid of the hostility. Your partner would not want to attack you if you are flashing a white flag. The best thing about agreeing than arguing is that your husband or wife would seem to defend you at the latter part of the confrontation.

Now you know the things you must not do in order to save your marriage. Next time, you can tell the world, "I did stop my divorce and save a lifelong relationship!"

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